Read it now, and your partner will be thanking you read: experiencing pleasure later. Reminder: The labia are the lip-like folds of skin around the vaginal opening. Some are short, some are long, some are short on one side and long on the other. Some are wrinkly, others are smooth.
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Female masturbation is often seen as a taboo subject. Despite research showing that women masturbate as frequently as men, it's still not a topic that all females openly discuss. The Swedes have even created a new term for female masturbation in an attempt to stop women from being put off talking about the topic by the usual male-associated words. We spoke to women about their own experiences of masturbation and got some expert tips on how to make things work for you, including from Strawberry Siren, former Miss Burlesque Australia and the creator of the Pussy Play Masterclass, a workshop on the art of playing with yourself. Understanding the different bits of your body is the first step towards successful stimulation. My advice would be to explore, get to know what things feel like, and if it feels good, keep going!
Betty Dodson is sexologist and author and she has created a lot of great resources to help people learn about self-pleasure and orgasms. Betty also has a website with lots of content. Betty encourages using a mirror to become familiar with your body and the different sensations in different areas. You can trim your nails if they feel too sharp! Having some lube available is also a good idea for fingering.
Those feel amazing and can easily turn you on. I believe it. It's better than the "my arms are too short what do I do?