Being a good servant means developing and investing in your skills. Neither is offering to clean her house but being shit at it, or being her chauffeur but then expecting other things from her. They free her up so she can enjoy her life, and explore and grow her empowerment. All that you do ADDS to her life.
The first time hubwife sucked my lover was a special occasion. Hubwife just did some fluffing, sucking his cock to get it ready for me and when it was deemed ready, she guided it gently into me like a good cuckold. One of the most surprising aspects of wife led marriage is the asymmetric nature of sex. Few wives can imagine how different their sex life becomes when they assume a position of dominance in the marriage. In most marriages sex is essentially symmetric, or at least idealized as such. When one partner is in the mood, usually the husband, he works to arouse the other or, more commonly, simply initiates sex with, if he is in any way a gentleman, the expectation of mutual satisfaction. But wife led marriage is different… In a wife led marriage, the wife controls sex.
Witches have been frequently cast as evil characters, but this comes form fear. A woman who plays by her own rules, defies the patriarchal institutions that tell her to submit to authority. But as a proponent of female led relationships I recommend surrendering control over your manhood to someone you trust and are in a relationship with. The main goal of this rule is to allow you both time to get to know one another as people.
The dream: being married one day and watching my husband take the biggest cocks real or dildo he wants in his ass, because it brings us both pleasure and happiness. Just imagining it is an incredible turn-on for me. And it could be from any number of different scenarios. Or maybe he just loves the feeling and wants to hear how proud I am of him. This is a fairly accurate summary of my marriage.